Wednesday, February 8, 2017

We need more time, and less clothes by Womankind

My assistant Nicoll just sent me this great article. Enjoy.


Why we need more time, and less clothes

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by Womankind mag on August 11, 2016

Why do we work so much? Why don’t we curate our lives so we can spend joyful hours painting, thinking, reading, going for long walks with our lover – why don’t we pursue the carefree life indefinitely, one of enjoying periods of rest, of learning, of growing? Why do we take more pay over less work? What’s wrong with us?
Juliet Schor, professor of sociology at Boston College has spent the past decade or so trying to understand why people work so much, often in jobs they don’t like. “Why don’t people save money so they can work less in the future?” she asks. “Why do people just take the money and spend it?”
Schor argues that a lot of our spending behaviour comes from trying to keep up with a rising standard of living. We feel almost forced to buy things for fear of falling behind. We feel compelled to take out a loan to buy a house, a car, a constantly rotating wardrobe because everyone else is doing it, family, friends, work colleagues as well as the people we see on television, movies, advertising, newspapers and magazines. In fact it’s this latter category that often has the biggest pull on us.
It’s the lifestyle of the wealthy that’s mainly shown in the media, talked about in newspapers and lifestyle sections, says Schor. “The media is increasingly orientated towards the lifestyles of the very top, and what I found in the US was that more people across the income spectrum were looking to that increasingly luxurious lifestyle for themselves.”
The “good life” in the media is about owning lots of stuff, jet-setting around the globe to go shopping and expanding everything from houses, to kitchens, businesses to economies. The good life is never depicted as a life of ample time – time to play the cello, write, plant flowers, or sit around doing nothing but chatting with friends. Indeed, the media has taught us to equate owning lots of products with a high standard of living, as opposed to growing other aspects of our life such as cultivating skills and friendships.
“We have a lot of stuff but we are poor in terms of our time and control of our time,” says Schor. “We must shift onto a path where we are less orientated to accumulating stuff and more orientated to accumulating time, connecting with people, building social capital. It is not how many toys you have when you die; it is much more the richness of your social life, that’s what really matters.”
The obsession with buying stuff to gain a high standard of living is most apparent in the fashion industry; in our McFashion world clothes are churned out in factory lines much like sausages, bundled up in plastic wrapping and shipped across the seas. Hardly any fashion these days is manufactured in small local shops with local seamstresses.
The glut of fashion is evident in the waste stream, ever-rising volumes of fashion stuffed down chutes in apartment blocks, buried in wheelie bins, and draped across rubbish tips; the previous season’s jackets, skirts, tops and pants are clogging up the arteries of our cities. Schor notes that textile rubbish in the US is a growing component of people’s garbage; figures from 2007 reveal that 35 kilograms per person of fashion is tossed into the garbage each year.
The most revealing fact about the contemporary fashion industry, notes Schor, is that clothing can now be purchased by weight rather than by the piece, and at a price as low as two dollars a kilo. Now, it’s even possible to buy high-end apparel for less than rice, beans and other basic foodstuffs – a boon for fashion houses, but a disaster for the planet.
Social scientists say that when we view an image of a fashion model wearing a dress, a photograph displayed online or in a magazine, we consume the image and symbol of the dress; perhaps the dress represents for us a feeling of scaling up to higher living standards just like the people on television. The physical dress – its fabric, lining, and buttons – is for the most part irrelevant, and so is the 20-something Chinese girl who sews its seams in a factory.
Interestingly, on the other side of the world, the factory girl has dreams just like our own of working hard so that one day she can enjoy the life beamed down to her via television sets and cinemas: the big house, the car, lavish parties, expensive education for her future children. She works for the same symbol that we do.
“It’s not only the planet that suffers in this stage of consumer culture,” writes Schor in her book True Wealth. “The fast-fashion dynamic puts enormous pressure on consumers to keep up with what can at times feel like a dizzying acceleration in norms. It’s financially exhausting, and requires time to shop, compare prices, and learn to operate new technologies. Fast fashion fosters an unhealthy dissatisfaction with what one has and anxiety about falling behind.”
It’s not just fashion that’s turning our planet into a rubbish tip. We’ve somehow turned everything into a symbol of plentitude, from cars and bed linen to fancy vacuum cleaners. British sociologist Mike Featherstone calls it the “aestheticisation of everyday life,” pointing out that every aspect of life is an opportunity for aesthetic expression (the appreciation of beauty and art), from pens to bags, kettles to watches. We somehow use these items to shape our identities; for instance, we buy the rustic kettle to signify an “organic, herbal, naturalist” self, but then we might replace it with a decorative Japanese kettle to signify a “Taoist, meditative” self.
In the past, in contrast, items were used for their function. A kettle was used to boil water and it is unlikely to have even crossed people’s minds whether the neighbour had an identical kettle or not. If someone were to have said to a person a hundred years ago that they should ditch their kettle because it had fallen out of fashion, they would have thought that person was stark raving mad.
The trouble with placing a symbolic value on almost every tool we use – from vacuum cleaners to mobile phones – is that marketing gurus are constantly changing the signs on us, of what’s in and what’s out. “If what is symbolically valued remains so for only a brief period of time, then replacement goods become necessary,” writes Schor. Indeed, we’re forced to ditch, research the new products on offer, shop, buy, ditch again, and the cycle is endless, expensive, exhausting, and we have to work more and more hours to get back to where we started.
“If you look at what the growth model is doing to people in terms of their mental health, their physical health, their subjective well-being and all of those things – it is not as though the current system is giving us nirvana and oh dear we see that here is an ecological problem. It is undermining the well-being of the planet and its people,” says Schor.
So what’s the answer? “We need a new set of values and culture,” concludes Schor. “We need to talk postgrowth.”

From the ‘papillon’ edition of Womankind

Friday, January 27, 2017

2017

It's a new year and you are resolved to get your house in order. Where to begin? I can help.
Let's start with linens and towels.

Grab a couple garbage bags.

Step 1
Walk around your home and every where you store linens get them and put them in a pile. Match up all you sheet sets. Do you have any sheets that you really don't use? Do you have more than one set for each bed? Do you have any sheets that you don't like? OK, if you answered yes to any of these questions, put those sheets into the garbage bag. Now put your completed sets away - in one location.

Step 2
Walk around your home and grab all of your towels. Match up all your sets. Do you have any towels that look a little tired and worn down? Do you have any towels that you just don't like? Do you have more than 2 bath towels for each person who lives in your home? Do you have too many hand towels and/or wash cloths? If you have answered yes to any of these questions, put those towels in the garbage bag. Now put your towels away - in one location!

Step 3
Donate the bags of towels and sheets. One place I like to go for donation of sheets and towels is the SPCA.

Thursday, December 29, 2016

OK, now is your chance to…

Holiday Purge

Today is Dec. 29th so you are probably ready to say good bye to the holidays and get on with the new year. The tree will come down and the decorations will be put away.

So how do you purge?





1. Take out your holiday containers and all of those items you did not use this holiday season…put them in a bag to be donated.
2. You probably don't do this but if you do…throw away any edible decorations (i.e. candy canes). You will buy more next year.
3. Since you reduced the amount of holiday decorations, you may now have a couple empty containers. What to do? Put the decorations designated for donation into these bins and donate them as well. Less bins equals less stuff.
4. Put the holiday bins away and the tree out for recycling.
5. Complete the final step…take the donations to Goodwill, collect a receipt and put the receipt in your 2016 tax file.

Hello New Year!

Tuesday, November 15, 2016

Holiday Decorations

Can you believe Thanksgiving is next week? For many of you that means in the next week or so you will be pulling out the holiday bins to decorate the house. This is your opportunity to get a jump on decluttering your home before the end of the year.








1. Go get your holiday bins and decorate your home! That's the fun part.
2. Any ornaments that are broken should be thrown away.
3. Any ornaments that you don't use but you are keeping for sentimental reasons should be placed in a keepsake box. For instance if your child made an ornament that you want to keep when he/she grows up then that should be placed in a specific keepsake box for that child. This will give you a better idea of the volume of items you are keeping for your child. Only decorations you use should be stored in the holiday bins.
4. Any items that you don't use…donate them to your local school, senior center, place of worship.

Hopefully this last step will help you reduce the amount of containers you need to store your holiday decorations.

Tuesday, November 1, 2016

Luggage



Are you ever amazed at how much space luggage can take up in your home?
Do you have to rush off to the store to buy more toiletries for a trip because your not sure where you left those items from your last trip?
Wouldn't it be nice to just know where everything is before you leave for a trip?
What would Andrea Do?

The answer…nest your luggage and your travel accessories all in one bag.

1. Get all your luggage, duffel and travel bags together. Designate the bags in groups according to the person who uses them.  Any unclaimed bags should be donated.
2. Gather together each person's travel accessories - neck pillows, travel pouches, make up bags, travel bottles.
3. Now that you have all the travel items in place it is time to nest it all together. Start with yours first. Take your travel accessories, soft bags, duffel bags and put them all into your carry on sized suitcase. Take this bag and nest in your large bag - typically the one you have to check at the airport. Your luggage and travel items are all stored into one bag.
4. Repeat this process for each person in your home.
5. Your luggage footprint has been reduced and now you know where everything is so the next time you go on a trip you may not have to dash out for that travel sized toothpaste because you already have a tub in your toiletries kit.

Happy trails.

Wednesday, August 10, 2016

You might not like this…


I often work with families who have bins and bins of keep sake items. These often include outfits their children wore when they were growing up from infant all the way up through the teenage years. On some level, I get it. There is a memory attached to the piece of clothing that you want  to preserve and one way to do that is to hold on to the item. But I ask you, who are you saving it for? Is it for you or the child who wore the item? From there I would say, ask your child to look through the saved clothes and decide what they want to keep.  You might be surprised by the response. Those items that are not the must haves should then be donated to your local shelter.

What would you rather do, keep a piece of clothing that will pretty much remain in a bin for eternity or would you like to clothe a child that could use it right now.

I say take those clothes out of their bins, take a picture and then donate them to a child in need. Here is one organization that does just that. (http://baby2baby.org/donate/)

Monday, July 25, 2016

Questions

Recently a friend of mine asked me what he should do with all of his books. I responded with a question. Do you think you will re-read any of the books you have? His answer was no. OK, there you have it. If you have books and you are not going to read them, then it is time to pass them along to someone else who will.




Here are your options:

1. Donate the books to your public library. Many public libraries hold annual book sales. The proceeds benefit your public library. You get the tax donation and the library gets the much needed funds. On a side note, instead of buying books you might want to think about getting a library card for yourself.

2. Sell the books. If you think your books are of value, you can sell them on eBay. It is a very simple process.

3. Donate them to Goodwill. Not everyone is a fan of Goodwill. Here are my two cents…Goodwill employees people with disabilities, and usually people who would not be employed anywhere else.

4. Share with friends - host a book exchange with your friends…out with the old and in with the new.

Happy reading.