drama free zone

on a rare occasion, i have been in relation/contact with individuals that carry a negative demeanor. and in being connected with these particular individuals i have by mere association been impacted by their drama. well with the beauty of age can also once in a while come wisdom. so thankfully now i can usually see ahead to the patterns of people and am learning to remove myself before the drama hits. i have a close friend that does not always make the best decisions and as a result can live a dramatic life with negative impact. i can be her friend but i no longer am surprised by the dramas of her life and usually can anticipate the results before they come to her. for a long time i wanted to help but i have learned it is best just to be supportive and continue on with my own path. now i wouldn't say she is negative per se but i do hold on to my own oxygen when we are in the same room.